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The activism of flirting & the risk of its demise

Musings from a Feminine Perspective

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Ruby May
Jun 20, 2024
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I love a good flirt.

Flirting, at its best, is not some form of ‘base’ or ‘lower’ impulse, like it’s often thought of, due to our sex-negative conditioning and history of gender wars.

Flirting is a form of nourishment: when we allow ourselves to be curious about each other and for eros to flow between us, some kind of life-affirmation button in our system…

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